Wow 5 i think it is yime to pullout the big guns for this battle! But firstly I would focus in his social skills, because if he has this problem starting school, then it is may cause a lot of emotional social issues for him. That can be near impossible for them to recover from
i would suggest elininating phyisical and emotional causes by visiting your family doctor (maybe talk to his teacher- what is he like in the group, would they say he is confidant in all other areas ect)
If it is just being plain lazy, then make it the hard alturnative to going to the toilet!
When he pees on the floor - tell him to turn TV off and go and get a bucket, put that toy down, put these in the wash, i would make him clean up as much as possible, if he complains then you can say you dont like cleaning it either! but it doesn't have to be that way.....GO TO THE TOILET!
i THINK EMOTIONAL REWARDS WILL HELP MORE THAN A NEW TOY, CUDDLE, READ A STORY TOGETHER, GO TO THE PARK things that he really enjoys doing
good luck!
Narelle
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